[Mandy can't keep herself from sighing. She doesn't believe that every one who does something like she did is just setting themselves up for heartbreak...but she believes 99% of them are]
Yeah. I actually...did something similar. We had an open marriage. I never fell in love with anyone else, but he did. I don't think he knew how to love two people at once. [or, really, how to love anyone but himself in the end. But that's another can of worms] I think it can be done, if you find the right people and you're all grownups about it. But it's harder than it should be. More love should always be...easy, fantastic. I guess I still want to believe it can be. Easy. Love shouldn't be something you feel like you're fighting with every day.
But I'm probably projecting and I'm sure you're not having half the problems I did. [but she's sure there's some problems, otherwise Rose wouldn't be asking everyone about love]
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Yeah. I actually...did something similar. We had an open marriage. I never fell in love with anyone else, but he did. I don't think he knew how to love two people at once. [or, really, how to love anyone but himself in the end. But that's another can of worms] I think it can be done, if you find the right people and you're all grownups about it. But it's harder than it should be. More love should always be...easy, fantastic. I guess I still want to believe it can be. Easy. Love shouldn't be something you feel like you're fighting with every day.
But I'm probably projecting and I'm sure you're not having half the problems I did. [but she's sure there's some problems, otherwise Rose wouldn't be asking everyone about love]