text | daemon: emeraldd

[astralera]

[ It's been a few days since the fighting stopped and Era is still feeling antsy; too much energy left brimming under her skin. So she's been out hunting for the past day, distracting herself from the overwhelming anxiety of knowing someone loves you so completely and loving them in return.

But there's only so many rock trolls she can find before she needs to pull on her big girl pants and try and figure out what to do with all these Feelings. ]

When a pair of good friends realize they both have romantic feelings toward each other what is the next step they should take, and how should they proceed without ruining everything? Answers involving sexual intimacy will be ignored.

Additionally, if there is anyone still in need of any healing I am able to lessen the severity of wounds, if not heal them entirely. It is painless, non-invasive, and near instant.

To all the newcomers I have yet to speak with: welcome to Xistentia. I am Era Ra, though you may call me Era.

This place may not be your home, but it can be a home to you if you allow it. Normally it is not quite as hectic as it has been the past few weeks. There are many fauna and flora outside of the city limits that are dangerous, so take heed while exploring and always be prepared to defend yourself.

Comments

daemon: sophiad

[helical]

Have you talked about it?

[astralera]

By mutual agreement we are giving each other space. This is unfamiliar territory to us both.

[helical]

Maybe you can take that time to start thinking about what youre worried might go wrong and talking it out when youre ready

[astralera]

I believe most of my worries were passed through the Psylink, though I suppose it would be beneficial to find a way to put them into words.

[helical]

Id recommend that if you can

[astralera]

Is there anything else you would recommend?

[helical]

Just... making your feelings clear, i guess. Theres no correct way of doing this, its different for everyone

[astralera]

Perhaps I shall explore the library for books on the subject. If nothing else it should aid me in finding the proper words.

Thank you for your advice.

[drapes]

It would be a matter of risk - what could you missing out on if you do nothing? A deep friendship, I imagine, could conquer even a separation in romance.

[astralera]

I had been asked something similar a few moons ago and must admit I still do not entirely understand how romantic relationships work compared to platonic ones. So I am not sure of what I would be missing out on apart from certain things I have no desire for.

Though you do bring up a good point - our friendship is a sturdy thing, forged in blood and dragonfire. Regardless of what happens we will still remain friends, I'm certain. I just worry about how our friendship might change if the romantic aspect does not last.

[drapes]

There is a oneness that comes in romantic relationships. There can certainly be a very personal and binding element to any friendship, but romantic love is something requiring more vulnerability and trust, I think.

Or I may be dreaming things up. I haven't the best track record for these things.

The best course for you seems to be discussing it with this friend. Decide together what each of you desires and needs.

[astralera]

No, what you say regarding vulnerability and trust makes a great deal of sense.

I believe my best course of action would be to do some research at the library, that I might first familiarize myself with terms and concepts to be discussed.

Thank you for your input. I appreciate it greatly.

[drapes]

[ then library does... not seem like the right place to be getting info for this, but okay, to each their own. thor's never been much for books and research anyway. ]

I'm glad you found value in it, and the best of luck to you going forward.

Feel free to contact me if you need a listening ear, friend.

[astralera]

[ finding out what sorts of intimate things people do in relationships so that she might know what she is or isn't comfortable with... well. it's definitely easier for her to consult books. infinitely less difficult than asking people about sex stuff!! ]

I still need to take you up on your previous offer of combat lessons. Perhaps one day soon I might take you up on both at once.

Is there nothing I can offer in return?

[drapes]

I would say I've never attempted magic before, but there's reasons for that. I'm sure I'd end up a frog or three-headed on accident.

A training partner is payment enough, friend.

[astralera]

The magics I use have risks to them, but never transfiguration of oneself. Are you certain you would not like to try learning a simple healing skill? The worst that could happen would be it being ineffective, and perhaps draining more of your energy than required but not to a dangerous extent. The main benefit would be the ability to turn a fatal wound into one that can be survived.

I understand that not everyone is comfortable with the thought of performing magic however, and will not press the issue if you have no desire for it. I just don't want you to believe yourself incapable of success if you were to try.

I am more than happy to be a training partner regardless. It will be a nice change from training with only striking dummies and Aymeric.