Very true. I tend to ignore it these days, but when I was younger I sort of fed off it. I enjoyed winding people up to the point where they would insult me because of the attention it got me in certain situations.
I suppose it doesn't, now. But there was a very brief time and place where being that sort of girl was something I could use. Mostly to draw attention to my ex husband and the work he was doing. Seeing this very loud, crass girl in London made heads turn, and then those heads would stop and listen to him.
It's rather hard to explain now, I don't think I could have even explained it then very well.
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It's rather hard to explain now, I don't think I could have even explained it then very well.