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[ptrprkr]

Hello there friends and neighbors of Xistentia! This is... a fellow citizen like yourself!

[ He thinks this is set to post anonymously. Oh no, Peter. ]

And today I come to you with a question of the more personal nature;

Once you've gotten yourself a boyfriend, or a girlfriend, what are you supposed to do next?

[ Oh no, Peter ]

Also, what are some things that make someone a good significant other?
I'd like to get an idea and a little bit of insight. I'm still pretty new to relationships.

[ Peter. No. ]

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text; daemon: shebad

[shadowblends]

[kurt's first instinct is to tell peter that he's definitely not asking this anonymously, but someone else has already beaten him to the punch, so--]

i don't have a significant other yet, though there are many things you can do that will help you be a good boyfriend.
going on dates, listening, communicating, letting them know how much you care however you can.
being straightforward with issues that you both may have is important, too, and no matter what: always give a hundred and ten percent.

oh, and don't worry about being new to relationships.
you're certainly not the only one.

[but let's not toss out names willy-nilly or anything.]

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[ptrprkr]

i'm seeing a bit of a common theme here.
listen and communicate!
it seems like it's easy enough to do, but i have a feeling it's one of those that looks that way on paper

ahaha 😅 i suppose it's one of those things that everyone is new to at some point in time, right?

[shadowblends]

at times, it can be, but as long as you're truly putting your all into understanding and appreciating your partner ...
but yes, listening and communicating are key.

correct! i'm dealing with a bit of my own new stuff at the moment.
never feel bad about being new to things, either.
the only way to learn is by experiencing them.